If you are upset or something is wrong, you don’t have to always say that you are okay. You don’t have to worry about what comes out of your mouth or only talk when you think that you have something good to say. You do not have to stay around people that make you feel that you aren’t good enough and you never have to be in relationships that make you feel that you are not who you are or that are holding you back from being the best you can be.

We sometimes keep things to ourselves because we think that if we choose not to talk about it then it might go away. The truth is some people will stay in relationships even when there are red flags and even when their mind and soul is telling them to leave. These people are strong people, and they are loving and patient and hoping that the future will be better.

Those that choose to stay are brave and they are willing to hold on to hope even when their instinct tells them it is time to move on.

The honest truth is thought that there are some relationships that need to be ended and left behind. These relationships are broken and hurting and if you want to save yourself and be able to be who you are really meant to be, you have to leave these relationships. There are some relationships that aren’t meant to last forever and there will be times when relationships end when you thought they should last.

Universe and You

The universe knows what you need and what is better for you. You will look back later in life and realize that there was something good about your bad relationship and that the universe was making a way for you to have the best life you can have. Relationships are learning situations and when you have to leave a relationship to better yourself, it isn’t because you are heartless or selfish, it is because you love who you are.

The universe wants you to love others, but it also wants you to value who you are and to be the best version of you possible.

Why Stay?

If you choose to stay in your relationship, never do it because you are afraid that you won’t find love. Be in the relationship because you want to be happy and because you are in love. If you find that your relationship is not full of love and peace, chances are that you are not in a healthy relationship.

Giving Love

Always be careful who you give your heart to. Make sure that you are finding people that will love you back. Your intuition will guide you and help you to know when the situation is right or wrong. Listen to what your gut is telling you.

Chances are that you will meet many men along the way that you will have to move on from before you find your one.

Perfect Match

Before you meet your perfect match, you will have to realize who you are and what you want in your life. Be careful about who you allow to come into your life and make sure that they are building you up and not tearing you down.

Choose to be kind and loving and do not allow people to use you. Say what you need to say and be bold and truthful and if they love you, they will prove to you that they care about you.

Keeping or Letting Go

Learn to figure out what relationships are no longer serving you and learn to let them go. Be brave enough to move past a relationship that is not healthy for you and take it as a life lesson.

You never have to be someone that you aren’t and if you have to pretend to be someone you’re not, this is a big sign that you are in a bad relationship. Learn to say what you are thinking and to tell the people in your life what you are feeling. If they love you, they will embrace your honesty.

People that are in love with you or that really love you will not hurt you. Those that hurt you and leave you never loved you and those are the ones you need to move forward from.